From some dude on Mark's flist

[agentcampbell]

Your result for The Quick & Painless ENNEAGRAM Test...

3 - the Achiever

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you chose AZ - your Enneagram type is THREE (aka "The Performer").

"I need to succeed"

Achievers are energetic, optimistic, self-assured, and goal oriented.

How to Get Along with Me

• Leave me alone when I am doing my work.

• Give me honest, but not unduly critical or judgmental, feedback.

• Help me keep my environment harmonious and peaceful.

• Don't burden me with negative emotions.

• Tell me you like being around me.

• Tell me when you're proud of me or my accomplishments.

What I Like About Being a THREE

• being optimistic, friendly, and upbeat

• providing well for my family

• being able to recover quickly from setbacks and to charge ahead to the next challenge

• staying informed, knowing what's going on

• being competent and able to get things to work efficiently

• being able to motivate people

What's Hard About Being a THREE

• having to put up with inefficiency and incompetence

• the fear on not being -- or of not being seen as -- successful

• comparing myself to people who do things better

• struggling to hang on to my success

• putting on facades in order to impress people

• always being "on." It's exhausting.

THREEs as Children Often

• work hard to receive appreciation for their accomplishments

• are well liked by other children and by adults

• are among the most capable and responsible children in their class or school

• are active in school government and clubs or are quietly busy working on their own projects

THREEs as Parents

• are consistent, dependable, and loyal

• struggle between wanting to spend time with their children and wanting to get more work done

• expect their children to be responsible and organized

Renee Baron & Elizabeth Wagele, The Enneagram Made Easy. Discover the 9 Types of People.

Harper: San Francisco, 1994, 161 pages

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Comments

[agentfraser.livejournal.com]

You're stroking my ego when you should be stroking something else. Which we should probably talk about.

Do you think we suck? Pat called me this morning, gave me a pep talk. Well, technically gave both of us one via me.

[isabelowens.livejournal.com]

I want to be stroking something else, but you said to wait, so I've been waiting. Ooh, dirty talk. My favourite.

No, why? What did Pat say?

[agentfraser.livejournal.com]

I was just trying to be respectful. I know, a bit too late for screwed up chivalry. More like not dirty talk.

No, I wasn't asking for anything he said. He was supportive, making sure I was okay. I asked him if Cameron and Harri were, and he just said no. He wouldn't elaborate. I think he was just letting us know he technically wasn't taking sides.

[isabelowens.livejournal.com]

Which I can respect. I respect your respect. Damn... okay, hit me.

Yeah, I spoke to Pat before. He was... I really love him. Cameron's not going to be okay for a long time.

[agentfraser.livejournal.com]

What are we supposed to be doing? Do we go back to how we were before? Do we live together? Do we keep our distance? Do we keep on the hush? Do we just pretend nothing happened and try to do what we did before?

Well, that's what happens when you get fucked over. I wish it could've gone down without hurting anyone, but I don't know. I feel guilty, but I felt guilty when we were still with them too. Pat didn't have to give us the time of day, especially when he's in hospital. Plus, Aiden hates me.

[isabelowens.livejournal.com]

You said we couldn't go back to how it was before. I don't want to keep my distance. How are we supposed to know anything if we're nowhere near each other? It's hard to keep it on the hush when everyone already knows. I don't know about pretending. I don't want to pretend anything. We need to be who we are now like you said.

So do I. I thought it was just me feeling guilty. I hate that I've hurt Cameron. I hate I took you away from your child's mother. Aiden hated you before, James.

[agentfraser.livejournal.com]

I didn't mean it like that. I was just trying to fuck Harri and Cameron over more than we already did. I mean, as much as I know I'm not entitled to feel it, if I heard she was sleeping with someone else already, I would probably get pissed off. Which sucks, and it fucked up. But I suck. I just want someone to sit me down and say "Right, this is what you do next". Mark won't even do that.

Yeah, but we were getting on the same page. He was at least tolerating me towards the end there. He has every right to hate me. I'm still scared Harri won't want me to have anything to do with the kid. I mean, look what happened with Mark and Ali. I just want things to be happy.

[isabelowens.livejournal.com]

It all still gets down to one thing, James.

What makes you happy? What do you need to be happy?

Things aren't going to be happy for a little while, not with what we did. And not with Ali losing her baby. At least her and Andy are working on healing together.

[agentfraser.livejournal.com]

I don't know. I mean, I do, but I thought Harri made me happy too, and she did. You both do. Did. I think. See? See where my brain is? Maybe we should just spend more nights together or something. Besides, I think Mark might be covertly shagging someone. He might appreciate not having me around, especially considering he still gives me the kicked puppy look over leaving him with Jamie.

I just wish they could be. Fuck, I thought we had fucked it for good with her this time, Iz.

[isabelowens.livejournal.com]

You're welcome here any time, you know that. You can even bring the nameless puppy. I want to spend more nights with you. We could try some dates, too. Is he? Good for him. Well, you have to admit it wasn't fair, James.

I know, me too. She'd have every reason to tell us to piss off.

[agentfraser.livejournal.com]

I know, maybe I could come tonight? I just keep calling her Junior because I'm fucked if I know puppy names. Mark calls her It. A real date. Did we ever even do that before?

I know it wasn't fair, but she was crying and my head felt like it was going to explode. She just seems to have this sixth sense when things aren't right. I just needed an hour before I died from the headache. I needed his help. You were at work, I didn't know what else to do.

Have you spoken to her much lately?

[isabelowens.livejournal.com]

Sure, I'd like that. Junior works. Mark doesn't like her? And no, we didn't. Not that I remember.

How are you going to go if your son gets upset? I would have come, James.

Not as much as I want. I'll call her tonight. She's returning to work.

[agentfraser.livejournal.com]

She actually answers to it. I tried reading out a whole bunch of other girly dog names off Google and she just ate my sock. I think he likes he, but he doesn't want to admit her likes her. We could go get dinenr on the way home.

I don't know. Probably still go to Mark. I go to Mark if my big toe hurts. It was reactionary. I know I fucked up, and he didn't have to take her. But he did, and I think it really hurt him. You were out on an interrogation.

Is she? I need to talk to her. I know she's planning some freakishly large wedding cake, and I know she went to talk to Mark.

[isabelowens.livejournal.com]

That's a good start. Looks like she's happy with her name. Sounds like Mark all over. Okay. I'll make sure to touch up my make up before we leave.

Probably because you gave him time with a daughter he's never going to have. Oh. Well, shit.

Yeah, couple days a week. Just light duty. I think it'll be all chocolate, too. Did he say anything after?

[agentfraser.livejournal.com]

Touch up your makeup? Ooo, I am spoiled.

I know, and I'm an arsehole. I guess I just wish it could be any other way. She's such a great little kid. She only cries when something is really upsetting her. She doesn't even get pissed off when you fuck up and put a mitten on her foot instead of a bootie.

How weird is it going to be to see her down in the labs again? I got so used to just seeing her as a Mummy. Still can't believe she's getting hitched. I thought you would beat her to that. Not a whole lot. He signed over his parental rights to Jamie so Andrew can adopt her. I think he and Ali called a truce.

[isabelowens.livejournal.com]

I have to make some sort of effort since I'll be in work clothes, loser.

It can't be any other way. Andrew will be Jamie's dad, not Mark. He's giving up everything for her. She's a beautiful girl, and she'll be well looked after.

It's going to be extremely weird, but if it makes her happy, it's the right thing. Now she's a working Mum. Well, technically I did. You were there. A truce is a start.

[agentfraser.livejournal.com]

We both will, remember :P

I know, just still hurts. I guess it's just the blood thing. I think he wants kids but won't admit it because it will hurt too much.

I mean the proper white wedding thing. I thought Ali would die a bachelorette. I still catch myself watching Andrew and wondering how he can match her so well being nothing like her.

[isabelowens.livejournal.com]

Yeah, but I'm the girl. I'm supposed to be extra pretty.

He's probably wondering if he'd ever find someone again, too.

No, she's meant to do it first. I'll be the last one. Because he loves her, and sometimes opposites really do attract.

[agentfraser.livejournal.com]

Since when has that ever been an issue with us?

He is, and dealing with the fact Ali really has moved on. He's been deluded about that for years. I'm only guessing that he's seeing someone, but I found condoms in the bathroom.

Well, she is now. You just run away from white weddings. Do you run if you're Maid of Honour, because I can so imagine Ali chasing you down the aisle and taking you out with her bouquet if you try it on. Maybe they aren't so opposite? Maybe he's just helped Ali find herself again? She only toughened up to the extent she is when she got kidnapped that time.

[isabelowens.livejournal.com]

Is this supposed to be a real date? You're okay with me all sweaty and streaky?

You're men. There's always going to be condoms in the bathroom. It'll be healthy for him to finally make the realisation. It'll hurt, but it'll help.

I'm not going to run, you bastard! I'm sticking this one out. It's not mine, so nothing to be scared of. It'll be nice if she has found herself. She's not as broken as she thinks.

[agentfraser.livejournal.com]

Why wouldn't I be? Unless you want to do the dressy up thing.

There wasn't when I first got here. Told me has hasn't gotten laid since Ali. I think he has realised, that's why he's licking his wounds.

Just checking, because that would have been amusing. She can run surprisingly fast in those Manolos. She was, but I think she's getting better. I catch her looking at me sometimes, like she has things to say to me but she's sitting on them.

[isabelowens.livejournal.com]

I have no idea. Been a while since I dated.

Interesting. And they're not yours? He's lying? Poor Mark... as much as I'm Ali's best friend, I do feel for him.

I'm sure it would have made your day, but not Ali's. I know, I can't get over what she can do in those things. That's either a good thing, or extremely bad.

[agentfraser.livejournal.com]

Liar. What was the thing with the footballer, intermission?

Nah, Mark uses Kimonos, I used Trojans. Nothing but the best for Marky Poo. Well, he told me before, like when he first got back. He hasn't mention it since. Me too, and you know the odd part? She does too. She never wanted to hurt him.

Do you think she has ever taken anyone out with them? I should probably be lucky she had her gun to my head and not a Jimmy Choo. Fuck, I know. It's that look. The Ali Look. It's unnerving.

[isabelowens.livejournal.com]

It was sex. With travel. There weren't dates there, either.

You don't have to use either at the moment considering I'm pregnant. Which might mean he is knocking the headboard with someone. Better not be someone with blow-up breasts again. Maybe they can still be friends.

It wouldn't surprise me. They're a perfect weapon. What do you think she wants to say?

[agentfraser.livejournal.com]

You didn't eat with him? Drink with him? Spend time with him just hanging? That's all date stuff.

Jesus. That killed my boner just a little bit, no offense. We might need to work on that. Fuck, I hope not. I don't want to have to sabotage a second shite relationship choice of his. His ex was a fucking bitch. Whoever she is, they're fucking good with the ninja sex. I haven't even found a stray pair of panties lying around anywhere or something. You know, I hope they can. There is too much other discontent in our family, and they don't hate each other.

I don't know. Maybe she just wants to bitch me out. Maybe she wants to offload some things. Maybe she needs a shoulder to cry on. Maybe she just thinks my haircut sucks. She probably would have flat out told me that, though, and laughed.